We Were Made For These Times


For the umpteenth time... !

A little gift and signal to fellow Clarkies, seemingly adrift out there on the choppy waters.

From a profound thinker and inspired writer; Clarissa Pinkola Estes.

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We Were Made for These Times
by Clarissa Pinkola Estes

My friends, do not lose heart. We were made for these times.

I have heard from so many recently who are deeply and properly bewildered. They are concerned about the state of affairs in our world right now. Ours is a time of almost daily astonishment and often righteous rage over the latest degradations of what matters most to civilized, visionary people.

You are right in your assessments. The luster and hubris some have aspired to while endorsing acts so heinous against children, elders, everyday people, the poor, the unguarded, the helpless, is breathtaking.

Yet, I urge you, ask you, gentle you, to please not spend your spirit dry by bewailing these difficult times. Especially do not lose hope. Most particularly because, the fact is that we were made for these times. Yes.

For years, we have been learning, practicing, been in training for and just waiting to meet on this exact plain of engagement.

I grew up on the Great Lakes and recognize a seaworthy vessel when I see one. Regarding awakened souls, there have never been more able vessels in the waters than there are right now across the world. And they are fully provisioned and able to signal one another as never before in the history of humankind.

Look out over the prow; there are millions of boats of righteous souls on the waters with you.

Even though your veneers may shiver from every wave in this stormy roil, I assure you that the long timbers composing your prow and rudder come from a greater forest. That long-grained lumber is known to withstand storms, to hold together, to hold its own, and to advance, regardless.

In any dark time, there is a tendency to veer toward fainting over how much is wrong or unmended in the world. Do not focus on that. There is a tendency too to fall into being weakened by dwelling on what is outside your reach, by what cannot yet be. Do not focus there. That is spending the wind without raising the sails.

We are needed, that is all we can know.

And though we meet resistance, we more so will meet great souls who will hail us, love us and guide us, and we will know them when they appear.

Didn't you say you were a believer? Didn't you say you pledged to listen to a voice greater? Didn't you ask for grace? Don't you remember that to be in grace means to submit to the voice greater?

Ours is not the task of fixing the entire world all at once, but of stretching out to mend the part of the world that is within our reach. Any small, calm thing that one soul can do to help another soul, to assist some portion of this poor suffering world, will help immensely.

It is not given to us to know which acts or by whom, will cause the critical mass to tip toward an enduring good. What is needed for dramatic change is an accumulation of acts, adding, adding to, adding more, continuing .

We know that it does not take "everyone on Earth" to bring justice and peace, but only a small, determined group who will not give up during the first, second, or hundredth gale.

One of the most calming and powerful actions you can do to intervene in a stormy world is to stand up and show your soul. Soul on deck shines like gold in dark times. The light of the soul throws sparks, can send up flares, builds signal fires, causes proper matters to catch fire.

To display the lantern of soul in shadowy times like these - to be fierce and to show mercy toward others, both, are act of immense bravery and greatest necessity.

Struggling souls catch light from other souls who are fully lit and willing to show it.

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Clarissa Pinkola Estes, Ph.D
Dr. Estés is an author; psychoanalyst; Member Hispanic Journalists; Post-trauma specialist, Columbine High School and community, since massacre, 1999-2003; Board member: Author's Guild, New York.

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Submitted by MA3 on August 28, 2008 - 5:07pm.

for sharing this... :-).


Submitted by ms in la on August 28, 2008 - 5:11pm.

"--there have never been more able vessels in the waters than there are right now across the world. And they are fully provisioned and able to signal one another as never before in the history of humankind."

Signaling....

Signal back at you! :-)

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Submitted by MA3 on August 28, 2008 - 5:17pm.

signal back at you as well! :-D


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Submitted by reggiesmom on August 28, 2008 - 6:05pm.

you've come through with a blog post that is not only thoughtful but inspiring.  Even though you didn't write this beautiful piece, you selected it for it's appropriateness.  And that means so much to those of us who needed to read these words right now.  

I especially identified with this:

Any small, calm thing that one soul can do to help another soul, to assist some portion of this poor suffering world, will help immensely.

Here's to ms_in_la for always managing to keep our heads above water! 


Submitted by ms in la on August 28, 2008 - 6:42pm.

I'm such a really bad swimmer! :D

Submitted by shortie on August 28, 2008 - 6:56pm.

Submitted by ms in la on August 28, 2008 - 7:18pm.

NOW you're in trouble!

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Submitted by reggiesmom on August 28, 2008 - 7:28pm.

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Submitted by jen on August 28, 2008 - 6:08pm.

you included with it this time! A beautiful piece made even more so by one of my favorite little lights! ;)

Once in a while you get shown the light, In the strangest of places if you look at it right.


Submitted by geaux on August 28, 2008 - 6:10pm.

Thanks. Time for greater individual responsibility and contribution to community. Deeds not words.

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Submitted by Stan4Clark on August 28, 2008 - 7:37pm.

And when the storm comes and the waves rise, as every seaman knows, the only thing you can do is point the bow into the sea and the face into the wind. To do anything else risks capsizing or broaching.

Sidenote: It was only a few years ago when I learned that the beautiful hymn "Amazing Grace" was written by a mariner who had just survived a North Atlantic storm.

I've asked for only one thing for my funeral or memorial service: The Navy Hymn:

Eternal Father, strong to save,
Whose arm hath bound the restless wave,
Who bidd'st the mighty ocean deep,
Its own appointed limits keep.

Oh hear us when we cry to Thee,
For those in peril on the sea!

Stan Davis
Lakewood, CO
Wes Clark -- Make America All It Can Be!


Submitted by NCGram on August 29, 2008 - 5:30pm.

is so comforting. It was played at our grandson's memorial service. He was lost at sea several years ago from his bass boat on the way to a weekend on Block Island one evening in the dark when he unknowingly went between a tug and its tow. He evidently didn't see running lights, and has never been found. The boat was found - damaged where the cable hit topside and evidently knocked him overboard.

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Submitted by Stan4Clark on August 29, 2008 - 5:32pm.

And what a tragedy! Life can be so random.

Stan Davis
Lakewood, CO
Wes Clark -- Make America All It Can Be!


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Submitted by damanforclark on August 28, 2008 - 10:16pm.

perfect. Thank you

"If you would win a man to your cause, first convince him that you are his sincere friend." - Abraham Lincoln


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Submitted by madspawn on August 28, 2008 - 10:30pm.

This may be a stretch to link this story to your beautiful post ms, but here goes....

Years ago I was watching Lenny Kravitz on one of those "Behind the Music" shows. Someone in the audience asked him how he came to write the song, Let Love Rule. Now, I don't remember his exact words, but the gist of what he said was that there evil in the world and that it was up to us, to push back. We had to never let go of love, of good, and of justice. We had to Let Love Rule in order to change the world and overpower the bad. I think of that everytime I hear the song now. :)

The truth will set you free. But first, it will piss you off. ~Gloria Steinem


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